Sunday, August 18, 2013

What true love really is, in my opinion.

Love is what makes wonderful and great things happen in the world.  Without it these things cant be accomplished.  One of the biggest obstacles in life isn't the never ending hunt for love but the lack of truth we have for it.  Everyone wants to love someone and to be loved and to have the experience, but the path to it has has become so distorted and people get so blinded by the standards of the world. The world will tell you that your not good enough or you cant meet  up to other people, when in reality we are all human. Not one person is better than any other. We are all equal. I wish people would see that and would embrace the truth and not so much rush into things so important as to finding the right mate. You shouldn't feel like you have to search around or try people out. God has his timing for everything and His timing is perfect! Why not wait for the person He selected out that will fit your every need and desire than to date around all the wrong people? As far as age goes, I do not think that is important. You can love at this age. But to an extent. Love isn't some word you throw around because you want to or because you "think" its the right time to start saying it. That's why so many people get hurt. They think they're in love when really it was never love, but lust. Love never dies. So if you say you were in love with someone at one point then why did it not end up working out? Love does not give up and it always works things out. Do you think if God just gave up on us we would survive? He loves us so much that even if we turn our back or dishonor him no matter how many times he always forgives us and never puts us down. That is what true love really is.  Shouldn't that be the same for relationships? Also another thing I find disturbing is how much appearances mean to people. Sure you do not want to be with someone who totally disgusts you or someone you are not physically attracted to at all, God doesn't want that for you either. So don't think "Oh if I do it God's way I'm gonna end up marrying someone ugly". That's not it at all. He want's only the best for you. It is nice to be attracted to  someone and to look at them and say "Wow they're beautiful." But it takes more than just looking at them  to realize their beauty.

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